I am so confuse about the women around me. Maybe I am the one that is weird among them. I don’t think I will never have the wanting to have children and become a parent, not in the next 10 years at least. Those women whose around me such as my friends and my cousins seems to love to become young mothers. Now almost all of them already have little children and they seem to want even more kids. Seeing them getting so busy doing their parenting jobs with their little kids makes me even not wanting to have any children anytime soon. Kids can be such a nuisance, especially to those who are very spoiled ones. It seems that their parents have no power whatsoever to handle their kids. I am starting to wonder if they have the parenting power at all, I mean being a parent it is not some kids games you can play easily over the telly.
I do not know anything yet as a parent since I am not one but seriously some of their kids are getting out of hand. Their behaviour sometime is very intolerable. They are like bunch of little demons to me and I think I am so allergic to them. The funny things is every time their kids making bad things or doing major mistakes, the parents did not warn them and seems to always break down every time when they see their kids crying. Even some kids fake their cries. It is very different with my time when I was a kid. My parent is very discipline of me. They let me know what is right and what is wrong. If I do something bad they will punish me and will reward me if I do good things. I was very well aware of what is not allowed and what is allowed when I was a kid. I think now day’s parents have become so weak and try to give anything that their kids want. I am not sure if it is a good development or not. If I have kids someday I probably will educate them with an iron fist rather than just letting they watch some lame Dora games over the computer all day.
Perhaps the social value had changed so much now days. You can get sued for child cruelty if you get caught putting your hands on your kids. It is a positive things I guess and I really do parents should not hit their children. But I do thing seriously that parents should also be clear with their children about most stuff. Especially little kids do not understand yet about grey area, they must be told what is black and what is white until they understand more in certain age degree. Now my friends and cousins been urging me to have a child before I turn 30, maybe I will have one someday if I am able to control my kids like a robot and move them like those characters in the physics games. Steer them do what I want until they are able to decide what they want on their own.
