INTRODUCTION: PERFECT sperm bank
Decided to have a baby is a very big decision. That’s even more tasking when you have lesbian couples who do not have to just deal with the backlash from what others in society might think, but we also have to deal with the daunting task of not having ready access to sperm.
When we decided we wanted to start our family, my partner had just graduated from Nursing School and had just turned 35 years old. I myself, had just turned 43 and ready to start a family 10 years ago. But we both wanted to wait until after graduation, as I have my college degree.
We started our trip by searching the web for various Sperm Bank that will meet the specific needs of our Sperm Donor. After all Lesbians do not have sperm available. After searching the web for a few weeks we can find several reputable companies that are willing to provide services, at a cost of course.
We can choose Lesbian Owned Sperm Bank, Pacific Reproductive Services, www.pacrepro.com, or some others such as California Cryobank, www.cryobank.com and many others but we chose to go with California Cryobank because they have more options.
Here is a list of some other folks we saw:
1. Xytex www.xytex.com
2. Cryogenic Laboratory www.cryolab.com
3. Fairfax www.fairfaxcryobank.com
4. New England Cryogenic Center www.necryogenic.com
Here are some natural alternatives to make the baby too. (Of course, you still need to sample sperm from the sperm bank is one of the above.)
http://twomommys.com/
There’s an art to choose the “Baby Daddy” will suit your sperm deficiency. Do I choose, brown eyes or black eyes, a square or round chin chin or college degreed or not educated? All decisions are expected to make you choose the appropriate characteristics so that you can have the baby “perfect.” We finally chose the donor with the Almond Eyes Large, medium-sized faces, with beautiful long lashes. He also has a thick, arched eyebrows, an oval face, skin color is, the average forehead, with a few freckles and dimples. The nose is round, the average with an average of the nostrils flare. We want big, full lips. Curly hair is a must, medium and long average fullness. And above all, we want straight teeth, to make sure my baby has a beautiful smile. Basically, I describe someone who looks a bit like me.
It is important that we chose those characteristics because my partner will bring the baby to full term, so I want someone who will look a bit like me. And I think we got as close to looking like me, maybe.
Although we have to go through the process of looking for the actual donor, I must say it is an easy process. Every Sperm banking is easy and friendly to use. This provides enough information for us to make a decision. Any FDA-approved sperm bank and donor of the facility that meets the eligibility requirements of the FDA. So we feel very comfortable going through the process of selecting an appropriate donor for our baby.
Some people may ask, “Why do not you sleep with a guy and get a” pregnant? Well the answer is that we are in a committed relationship. Not only are we committed to each other, but we do not want the hassle plus have a third parent in the picture. It is important to us, as a couple, which we raise our children alone, without the intervention of other parents in the picture. Oh, I believe there will be many friends and influence men in the vicinity, we have a boy. However it is important to use that we raise our own children. We are ok with our baby has Two Mommies.
In the end, we think we choose the right sperm donor and we move to the next process to find Fertility Specialists to assist us in the next step we’re really pregnant.